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- ``Young man.
- Why are you eating that fish?``
- the young mans says,
- ``because i love fish``
- he says``
- ``oh.you love the fish.
- that`s why you took it out of the water and killed it and boiled it.
- he says,
- don`t tell me you love the fish.
- you love your self. and because the fish tastes good to you,
- There, you took it out of the water and killed it and boiled it.``
- Sooooo much of what is love...
- is fish love.
- and so.
- Young couple falls in love.
- Young man and young women fall in love what does that mean?
- that means that he saw in this women some who he felt could provide him.
- with all of his Physical and Emotional needs,and she felt in this man some body she feels that she can write that was love, but each one is looking out for their needs.
- it`s not love for the other.
- The other becomes a vehicle for my gratification.
- too much of what is called love is fish love......
- An external love is not on what I`m going to get but I`m going to give.
- We had in Ethicist rabbi desler who said, ``the people make a serious mistake in thinking that you give to those whom in love, and the answer is you love those to whom you give.
- His point is if I something to you, I`ve invested myself in you. since self-love is a given, ...everybody loves Themselves, now that part of me has become in you , there`s parts of of me in you i love.
- so true love is a love of giving, not a love receiving.
....this story by Abraham Twerski
you are on my mind touch my heart with your
now and always. fingers.and you will near
you are the sweetest the most wonderful
song that only heartbeats dedicated
my ears can hear.... only to you....
when storm clouds gather follow your bliss
and the skies grow dark they said
I know you will be so i followed you...
my shelter and keep
me safe from harm....
i can`t stop thinking you are so much more
about you; today. than I even dreamed of
tomorrow ,always i want you to know that
you complete
In your eyes a thousand my life and dill my heart...
stars glow tonight,
in your heart a thousand you play the most
heartbeat. but in me one wonder music
endless love just because and in hour of loneliness
i thought of you...... my soul can hear it....
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- A husband wife were newly married...
- they were walking in the evening after dinner .
- And suddenly the husband tugged the wife aside...
- the wife said,`` what happened ?
- the husband said, ``darling, there was this puddle of water in front, so i did`t want you to step on it...
- so i pulled you aside.``
- 10 years later.
- the husband and wife were again walking...
- A puddle was in front...
- The husband said,`` careful, there is water in front.``
- 20 years later, they were again walking.
- there was a puddle in front.
- the husband said,`` are u blind? can you not see there is water in front.``
- relationships are like bank balances.
- if you wish to withdraw from your bank account, you need to make a deposit in the bank account.
- if you have not made a deposit, how will you withdraw?
- you go to the cashier and present a check of $ 10000.
- the cashier says, ``you won`t get anything.😀😀`
- ``why not?
- whatever you had has been withdrawn.``
- in the same way relationships work.
- when you scold somebody,it is a withdrawal.
- when you force somebody to do something, it is a withdrawal.
- when you correct someone, it is a withdrawal.
- when you disagree with someone, it is a withdrawal. when you smile at someone, you are making deposit.
- when you praise someone, you are making a deposit.
- when you help the other , you are making a deposit.
- when you sacrifice your time for other, you are making a deposit.
- so, if you wish to get other people to do things, you need to ensure that you have got sufficient deposits.
- if you don`t have deposits...because necessarily there are times when you have to scold.
- .If the parents don`t scold the children, then that`s not good for the children.
- for thier benefit you have to scold but remember the scolding is a withdrawal and if you wish to have the luxury of scolding, you must have made deposits.
- mostly the relationship get overdrawn and that is why the problem arises.
- so if you have to get thing done from other, if you have to teach others, if you have to correct others,remember that people are human, and they need encouragement, they need positive affirmation. . how? by giving, by sacrificing, by making deposits that will enable you to make the positive withdrawals when required. .this is the healthy perspective towards relationship
thanks to the people that walked into my life and made it better.. 💖💖 and thanks to the ones who walked out and made it amazing....... . For more advice on living your best life and please support him............
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